New research shows that the sound of a person’s voice alone can help reveal if a person has cheated on a partner.
In this research, both men and women simply had their voices recorded while counting from 1 to 10. Half of the speakers had cheated on a partner while the other half had not. Other participants were asked to rate the voices and evaluate whether the person speaking engaged in some type of infidelity. The participants were able to more accurately identify cheaters by simply listening to the sound of a person’s voice. The research took into account a wide range of factors that may have influenced the results such as a speaker’s attractiveness, body composition, and weight. It’s not clear exactly how listeners made their judgements — it’s not clear what aspects of a person’s voice reveal the tendency to cheat. The research simply shows that the tendency to engage in infidelity is somehow conveyed through the sound of a person’s everyday voice.
Source: Hughes, S. M., & Harrison, M. A. (2017). Your Cheatin’ Voice Will Tell on You: Detection of Past Infidelity from Voice. Evolutionary psychology, 15(2), 1-12.
New research highlights the latest trends in patterns of infidelity. Here are some of the more interesting findings:
- People are more likely to cheat during the summer months
- At a minimum, it’s estimated that cheating happens in 20-25% of marriages
- Rates of infidelity are increasing the fastest among older men (thanks, Viagra).
- Infidelity is the number one reason for divorce
- Cheating is more likely for individuals who have a dismissing or anxious style of attachment
- Growing up in a house where infidelity occurred increases one’s odds of cheating
- Living together before getting married is linked to increased infidelity
- More opportunities to meet people at work increases the likelihood of cheating
Source: Fincham, F. D., & May, R. W. (2017). Infidelity in romantic relationships. Current Opinion in Psychology, 13, 70-74.
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New research reveals that individuals with an insecure style of attachment – individuals who have an anxious or dismissing attachment style are more likely to engage in infidelity-related behaviors online.
When it comes to online activity people who have an anxious or dismissing style of attachment are more likely to…
- Engage in intimate information sharing with others
- Keep in touch with ex-partners
- Behave in ways they try to hide from their partners
- Hide online chats from their partners
- Get angry and defensive when questioned about their online behavior
- Believe their partners would be upset if they knew the truth about their online activities
Source: McDaniel, B. T., Drouin, M., & Cravens, J. D. (2017). Do you have anything to hide? Infidelity-related behaviors on social media sites and marital satisfaction. Computers in Human Behavior, 66, 88-95.
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Individuals with Machiavellian personality traits, people who have little emotional investment in their relationships, the tendency to exploit their partners, and often engage in deception and infidelity, are not only likely to take advantage of their partners, but also approach breakups in a cruel manner.
New research shows that women with Machiavellian personality traits are likely to initiate breakups using the following tactics:
- avoiding their partner and becoming more distant
- acting in ways that make the relationship more costly to their partner (i.e., purposely being difficult)
- breaking up via text message, email, voice message
Essentially, women with Machiavellian personality traits don’t take a proactive and considerate approach when trying to breakup.
You can take an online Machiavellian personality test here.
Source: Brewer, G., & Abell, L. (2017). Machiavellianism and romantic relationship dissolution. Personality and Individual Differences, 106, 226-230.
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New research explores how individuals who betray their spouses think about their actions.
Essentially, this research tries to address what people were thinking as they started an affair.
The findings of the study reveal that individuals who start an affair:
- They tend to be unhappily married. They believe there are unresolved problems in their relationship.
- They also tend to have a fixed mindset when thinking about the problems they encounter in their marriage. They don’t think that their problems can be solved.
- They believe that they have a greater desire for passion and sexual novelty than their spouse does.
- They believe that sexual gratification is an important aspect of their lives.
- They tend to put their own concerns over consideration for what their spouse is experiencing.
- They don’t believe that divorce is an option.
Individuals with the above mindset don’t necessarily set out to have an affair or recognize that their actions are putting them on the path to cheating.
Instead, individuals may meet someone who is fun and interesting and start spending more time with that person. Increased time and activities lead to a greater sense of connection with the other person. Eventually, passion overrides reason and judgment. Again, people don’t see the affair coming, until after it happens.
However, once individuals cheat on their spouse, feelings of regret are common.
Source: Zapien, N. (2016). The Beginning of an Extra-Marital Affair: A Descriptive Phenomenological Psychological Study and Clinical Implications. Journal of Phenomenological Psychology, 47(2), 134-155.
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